'Jon & Kate Plus 8' star Kate Gosselin 'very hesitant to believe' Jon Gosselin is cheating.Kate Gosselin says she's "very hesitant to believe" her husband is a cheater.
"We're dealing with it just like everybody else does," the unusually subdued "Jon & Kate Plus 8" star said on the "Today" show Thursday.
Kate's husband Jon has vehemently denied reports that he's having an affair with a 23-year-old, but failed to appear on "Today" beside his wife, as scheduled.
"We're not perfect," Kate later said. "I don't have all the answers... We're doing our best and learning how we go."
Allegations that Jon is cheating on Kate have reached a fevered pitch among his alleged other woman and her brother.
Third grade teacher Deanna Hummel has been having an affair with Jon for months, her brother and roommate Jason tells Us Weekly.
"She's a nice girl, not a homewrecker," he says. "[Jon] is a bad liar. This isn't healthy for her. But she is refusing to help herself, so here I am trying to help her myself. I hope this clears the air."
Us also published photos of Gosselin hanging out with a bikini-clad Deanna - and leaving a house IDed as her's early in the morning after reportedly spending the night.
But Deanna's says her sib is a big, fat liar.
"My brother is making this all up," she tells People magazine. "He has no credibility ... I can't even stomach the lies he's saying about me."
Deanna says her brother is "very shady ... he has no job. He has a criminal background. He was charged for drug distribution. He's on probation right now."
Jason later admitted he has a rocky past, but told Us, "I have no reason to lie."
Gosselin tells "Extra" the allegations are "false and just plain hurful," adding, "I did not cheat on Kate."
The reality star publicly apologized to his family last week for his "poor judgement" after late-night photographs captured the TV dad out alone - sans wedding band - with Hummel.
After spotting photographers, Gosselin was overheard yelling, "Hey, babe! Babe! Give me my jacket!" before climbing into his car, Us reported. He then urged Deanna to "get in the car!" before speeding off without turning on his vehicle's headlights.
"Like most people I have male and female friends and I'm not going to end my friendships just because I'm on TV," Gosselin said in a statement.
Deanna previously told People that the twosome are "just friends."
"It's absurd that anyone would think otherwise," she added.
But her brother begs to differ.
According to Jason, married father of eight Gosselin is over at his house in Reading, Pa., fairly often to see Deanna.
The couple "pretty much stay locked away like two teenagers," he said. "It was weird. He's a grown man."
Adds Jason, "A lot of the time, it was pretty, um, gross listening to her, you know, um — how do I say this? The walls are thin. Let’s just say that. I mean, no one wants to hear his sister having sex, let alone with a married dude who's, like, almost twice her age and who has eight kids and a maybe-crazy wife."
This isn't the first time Gosselin has been accused of cheating on his wife, Kate.
The TV dad came under fire in February for allegedly flirting with - and attempting to kiss - several students at Huntington, Pa.'s Juniata College. The reluctant TV star reportedly told one undergrad that he was getting divorced.
Kate recently confessed to Entertainment Weekly that the photo of Jon and Deanna caused friction for the couple.
"Jon's poor judgment and irresponsible behavior has also without a doubt caused some added tension and stress between the two of us."
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